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How to make AI sound like you

AI sounds like everyone because it learned from everyone. To sound like you, it has to read you.

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AI sounds like everyone because it learned from everyone. To sound like you, it has to read you.

Why it sounds generic

A model with no instructions writes the average of what it has read. That average is polished, polite and a little corporate. Every business that uses the tool gets the same voice.

The model can write in your voice. It has not been shown it yet. That part is your job, and it takes about an hour.

Step 1: collect samples

Find five to ten things you wrote that sound most like you. Emails that got replies. Posts people answered. A page you still like.

Use real ones. If AI wrote the first draft, leave it out. Add one piece that sounded wrong to you, and say why. A bad example teaches as much as a good one.

Step 2: turn the voice into rules

Read your samples and write down what you see. How long are your sentences? How do you open? Which words keep coming back?

  • Short sentences. Rarely more than 15 words.
  • Open with the point. Explain after.
  • No exclamation marks.
  • Say customers. Never say clients or users.

Rules like these are easy to check. "Friendly and professional" is impossible to check, and every model thinks it already writes that way.

Step 3: write a banned list

List the phrases that make you wince. This is the fastest fix of all, because the same handful of phrases gives most AI writing away.

Lines to cut today
  • I hope this finds you well
  • In today's fast-paced world
  • Game-changing
  • Let's dive in

Add to the list every time a draft annoys you. After a month it will be the most useful page you own.

Step 4: keep it in one voice file

Put the samples, the rules and the banned list in one file. Paste it before you ask for a draft, or add it to the tool's custom instructions.

If you want a structure to copy, there is a one-page brand voice template on this blog.

Step 5: check every draft against it

The file does not enforce itself. Read each draft with the rules next to it.

Rule broken

I hope this message finds you well! I wanted to reach out to share an exciting update about our offerings.

Rule followed

Two changes this month. The audit now takes a week. The price stays the same.

Then read it aloud. If you would never say a line to a customer's face, cut it.

What does not work

  • Asking it to sound human. It has no idea which human you mean.
  • One sample. It will copy that one email, not your voice.
  • A tone word. "Casual" means something different to every writer.

Where the voice file goes next

A voice file helps most when every draft is checked against it, every time. That is hard to keep up when you are also the marketer, the salesperson and the support desk.

Nive is being built to hold that file and do the checking. You see which rules a draft followed and which it broke. The first job is cold emails, which is where a robot voice costs the most. Join the waitlist to get the demo first.

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Questions people ask

How do I make ChatGPT write like me?

Give it five to ten things you wrote, a short list of rules about how you write, and a list of words you never use. Paste all three before you ask for a draft.

How many writing samples does AI need?

Five to ten good ones are enough for business writing. Pick the ones that sound most like you. More samples of mixed quality make it worse.

Can I train AI on my writing style?

You do not need to train a model. Samples and rules in the prompt are enough for emails, posts and pages.

Why does AI use the same words in every draft?

With no guidance it falls back on the most common phrasing it has seen. A banned list is the fastest way to stop that.

Stop explaining your business to every tool.

You run the business alone, and every tool makes you start from zero. Nive is being built to end that. Join the waitlist and you get the demo first.

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